It happens. In the heat of passion, everything seems perfect, until you realize the condom is missing. Your partner checks, you check, and after a moment of shared confusion, it dawns on you: the condom is stuck in your vagina.
Why It Happens
Condoms get stuck for a few reasons. A condom that is too loose is more likely to slip off during intercourse. Choosing the right size is essential. If a condom frequently slips off, it’s a sign that a better fit is needed. Another common cause is not holding the base of the condom while withdrawing after sex.
What to Do
First, take a deep breath. A condom getting stuck in your vagina is not uncommon, and it’s not life-threatening. The vagina is not an endless tunnel, and the condom cannot travel beyond the cervix.
Removing the Condom
If you feel comfortable, you can attempt to remove the condom at home. Start by washing your hands with soap and water. Find a comfortable position and relax your muscles. Gently insert two fingers into your vagina and feel around. The condom is likely not too far from the vaginal opening. If you locate it, use a hooking motion with your fingers to slowly pull it out.
When to Seek Medical Help
If you can’t reach the condom after several attempts, or if you experience pain, discomfort, or bleeding, stop trying yourself and seek medical help. A healthcare professional can safely and quickly remove it.
Dangers of Leaving the Condom Inside
Leaving a condom inside the vagina for too long can lead to complications. It creates a warm, moist environment that can encourage bacterial growth, increasing the risk of bacterial vaginosis (BV) or even a urinary tract infection (UTI).
What to Do After Removal
Once the condom is out, observe any changes in your body over the next few days. If you notice itching, an unusual odor, increased discharge, or any discomfort, visit a healthcare provider to check for infections. If you’re worried about pregnancy, take a test about two weeks after the incident or visit a doctor for further advice.