
Ian Wilkinson, a survivor of the deadly mushroom lunch served by Erin Patterson, has forgiven Patterson for attempting to murder him but cannot offer forgiveness for killing his wife, Heather, and in-laws, Don and Gail Patterson.
Wilkinson, standing at the end of the bar table in the Victorian Supreme Court, spoke for about 20 minutes about the impact of the “fateful lunch” on his life.
“I make an offer of forgiveness to Erin,” he said. “In regards to the murders of Heather and Gail and Don, I am compelled to seek justice. Now I am no longer Erin Patterson’s victim, and she has become the victim of my kindness.”
Wilkinson’s testimony was emotional, and he removed his glasses, dabbed his tears with a tissue, and sipped from some water before continuing.

He spoke of his marriage of 44 years to Heather and the loss of joy and silence that her murder had caused. “She was wise, and had skills that made up for my shortcomings,” he said. “Together we faced life as a team, and we delighted in each other’s company.”
Wilkinson’s daughter, Ruth Dubois, also read her victim impact statement, describing the disturbing nature of Patterson’s actions.
Patterson, 50, appeared more drawn and gaunt than when she was last in court on the day of her verdict. She watched on quietly but became emotional during the statements, occasionally dabbing at her eyes and nose with a tissue.
Patterson was not required to speak during the hearing, other than to confirm four questions about her particulars.
Several victim impact statements were read in court, including one from Simon Patterson, Erin’s estranged husband.
He described the pain of losing his parents and aunt and the impact on his children. “I miss my parents and aunt more than words can express,” he said. “I am thankful, however, that they are with God, and I will see them again.”
Other statements were read from Lynette Young, Heather and Gail’s sister; Martha Patterson, Don’s mother; Colin Patterson, Don’s younger brother; and Tim Patterson, Don’s nephew.

The court is set to hear about Patterson’s time in custody from Jenny Hosking, the assistant commissioner of Corrections Victoria, later on Monday.
Patterson was convicted last month of murdering Heather Wilkinson, Don Patterson, and Gail Patterson, and attempting to murder Ian Wilkinson. She will be sentenced by Justice Christopher Beale after the plea hearing.