Global superstar Jennifer Lopez has stirred up fresh controversy after candidly revealing her preferences in the bedroom, while seemingly throwing a subtle but pointed jab at her ex-husband, Ben Affleck. The 43-year-old singer and actress, renowned for her unfiltered honesty, made the explosive statement during a recent sit-down interview promoting her upcoming project.
Lopez, who has always been open about her views on love and relationships, admitted that she “likes it hard” when it comes to intimacy, a remark that instantly ignited fan discussions across social media platforms. While the pop diva did not directly mention Affleck, many fans believe the comment was a veiled reference to their recently strained relationship, following their highly publicized breakup earlier this year.
The “On the Floor” hitmaker, who rekindled her romance with Affleck in 2021 before tying the knot in a whirlwind Las Vegas ceremony, described passion as an essential part of her relationships. “I’ve always been a woman who knows what she wants. And yes, I like it strong, passionate, and unapologetically hard—because that’s how love should feel,” she said during the interview.
Fans were quick to interpret the remark as a thinly veiled critique of Affleck, 52, with whom Lopez reportedly clashed over lifestyle differences before their eventual split. Online speculation intensified after Lopez added, “Some people just can’t keep up with that energy, and that’s okay. You move on to find what makes you happy.”
The statement immediately went viral, with hashtags like #JLoTellsAll and #BenniferDrama trending within hours. Supporters praised Lopez for her honesty, while others accused her of publicly humiliating Affleck. One fan wrote, “J.Lo is living her truth, and we’re here for it!” while another commented, “She’s shading Ben and she knows it.”
Lopez has been focusing on her career post-breakup, with multiple projects lined up, including a new Netflix action-thriller and a highly anticipated world tour. Meanwhile, Affleck has maintained a low profile, reportedly spending more time with his children and staying away from media controversies.
When asked if she regrets speaking so openly about her personal life, Lopez simply smiled and said, “I’ve always been authentic. People will talk, but I’d rather be true to myself than live for anyone else’s approval.”
The star’s fiery remarks continue to fuel speculation about her love life and whether she’s ready to dive into a new relationship. For now, Jennifer Lopez appears unbothered, thriving in her career, and embracing her bold, unapologetic persona.