Former Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) housemate Uriel Oputa has sparked conversations online after revealing the challenges she faces in finding a “decent man” for a serious relationship. Speaking on the Outside the Box podcast, the reality TV star and chef shared her candid views on dating in Nigeria, describing men as “complicated and inconsistent.”
Uriel, who became a fan favorite during her time on BBNaija, lamented that modern dating has become more difficult, particularly for women seeking long-term relationships.
In her words:
“It is hard to date a Nigerian man… they are so complicated. You think you’re in a good place with someone, and the next thing, there’s always something better for them out there. Decent men are very scarce these days.”
Her statement reflects the frustration many women have expressed about commitment and trust issues in relationships.
Uriel’s remarks quickly went viral on Instagram and X (Twitter), where fans shared mixed reactions. While some women agreed with her sentiments, saying Nigerian men often lack seriousness in relationships, others criticized her for generalizing.
The hashtag #DecentMenAreScarce began trending shortly after clips from the podcast were posted, with many users debating whether the problem lies with men, women, or changing relationship dynamics in today’s society.
Uriel is not the first female celebrity to openly speak about her dating struggles. In recent months, other Nigerian celebrities like Toke Makinwa and Nancy Isime have also shared similar sentiments about the difficulty of finding trustworthy partners despite their success and public status.
Relationship experts believe public figures often face unique dating challenges, as many potential partners either feel intimidated by their fame or are only attracted to them for clout.
While Uriel has been linked to a few rumored relationships in the past, she has kept her private life low-key in recent years. On the podcast, she revealed that she is now more focused on personal growth, business, and maintaining her health, saying she would rather stay single than settle for a toxic relationship.
“I know my worth, and I won’t reduce my standards. If love comes, fine; but I’m not chasing it desperately,” she added.