Popular Nigerian comedian and filmmaker Ayo Makun, widely known as AY, has stepped into the ongoing backlash surrounding legendary musician 2Baba (Innocent Idibia), following the singer’s recent apology over controversial comments about monogamy and relationships.
2Baba, earlier last week, shocked fans when he made a public apology to his wife, Annie Idibia, acknowledging his past shortcomings in their marriage and vowing to do better. However, what sparked fierce reactions online was his bold claim that “men are not naturally wired to be monogamous”—a statement that triggered a firestorm of criticism from fans and feminists alike.
Now, AY has come to 2Baba’s defense, urging Nigerians to show more empathy and stop demonizing the singer for expressing personal vulnerability.
In a statement shared via his verified Instagram Stories and reposted on X (formerly Twitter), AY wrote:
“Why do we always crucify people for speaking their truth? 2Baba made a mistake, owned it, apologized… Let the man breathe.”
AY further emphasized that vulnerability in African men is often misunderstood and misjudged, especially when they try to be emotionally honest in public.
“We want men to be expressive, but once they do, we drag them to hell and back. What message are we sending? That men should bottle up again?” he added.
2Baba’s now-viral apology came during a podcast interview on July 2, where he admitted he had not been the perfect husband. He apologized to Annie, calling her “his queen” and “his strength,” adding:
“I know I’ve messed up more than once, but I’m learning and growing. Annie, I’m sorry.”
The comment that men are “biologically not built for one woman” didn’t sit well with many Nigerians, who accused him of masking his infidelity behind cultural justification. Critics also questioned whether the apology was sincere or a PR move.
Reactions to AY’s defense of 2Baba were just as polarized as the original apology. Some praised the comedian for supporting a fellow entertainer during a tough moment, while others felt he was enabling toxic masculinity.
“AY said what needed to be said. We all make mistakes. Let 2Baba heal,” wrote a fan on Instagram.
“Defending a man who embarrassed his wife on the world stage is NOT noble. AY should know better,” tweeted a feminist activist.
The conversation around masculinity, monogamy, and emotional accountability continues to dominate Nigerian social discourse—fueled further by celebrities who wade into the fray.
AY’s public support for 2Baba is significant because it touches on the broader conversation around male vulnerability in African society. As a respected comedian and filmmaker known for advocating family values and speaking on social issues, his voice adds weight to the ongoing debate about cultural expectations and emotional growth in men.
2Baba, for his part, has not responded to the backlash or to AY’s defense since his initial apology.